OUR GOALS: To provide safe, affordable lodging, and supportive services to transmasculine individuals going through the process of lower surgery. Our big picture goal is to eventually own a 5+ bedroom house in the bay area so that we may accommodate more individuals. This is a community-based model, in that we are looking to expand on opportunities for those staying with us to create connection with one another and honor each other’s transitions during this exciting and pivotal time.
HOW WE BEGAN: Quest House was born through a shared vision, calling, and collaboration of two close friends that took turns caring for one another in 2016 during their phalloplasty process. The house was financially funded by the eldest of these two friends, a deeply compassionate, and inspiring, trans elder. He began making space available in the extra bedroom in his apartment in Vacaville, CA on a sliding scale for others needing lodging and support through their process. Meiko Xavier, the current live-in services coordinator, had the privilege of being the very first guest of what would ultimately evolve into Quest House. Future guests came about via word of mouth within the community. Eventually, the local surgical teams heard about the space and began sharing it with their patients. Since then, Quest House moved to Sausalito, CA in order to be closer to the Bay Area phalloplasty teams. In June 2017, Quest House hosted their first guest in Sausalito! After 2 yrs in Sausalito and hosting 30 different surgical guests, Quest House is moving to a 5 bedroom house in Pacifica!
Q:WHO RUNS QUEST HOUSE?
A: Quest House is organized by Meiko Xavier, a transmasculine individual that has been in transition for over 13 years, and went through this surgically assisted ceremony himself in 2016.
Q: IS QUEST HOUSE A SPACE FOR ALL TRANS FOLKS TO RECOVER POST OP?
A: Presently, we are offering lodging to those individuals somewhere along the transmasculine spectrum that are having lower surgery (specifically phalloplasty and metoidioplasty). We may be able to offer lodging to a wider variety of folks down the line when we have a much larger space that would allow for procedure-specific privacy.
Q:CAN I STAY AT QUEST HOUSE IF I’M HAVING META OR A RELATED PROCEDURE?
A: Sure! We do however give priority to those that are recovering from “stage-1 phallo”, given the intense healing process that necessitates folks needing extra support for longer periods of time.
Q: HOW DOES THE SLIDING SCALE WORK? DO I HAVE TO SHOW PROOF OF INCOME TO QUALIFY FOR THE LOWER END OF THE SCALE?
A: Our sliding scale is $75-$125. Guests self-select an amount along the scale as a nightly rate. This amount covers your lodging +1 person if you are traveling with a caretaker. If you are in need of extra assistance such as caretaking, transportation, or meal prep, please visit our CARETAKING page for more information.
Q: IS QUEST HOUSE A NON-PROFIT?
A: Quest House is a project of the non-profit Empowerment WORKS!
Q: DO YOU OFFER SCHOLARSHIPS?
A: Currently we are only able to offer a sliding scale, this ends up being less than many other lodging options in the bay area, especially with all the donated extras we have at the house. One of our 2020 goals is to establish an official scholarship fund!
Q: CAN I BRING MY PET WITH ME?
A: We LOVE animals! However, currently we can only accommodate service animals. We prefer to maintain a pet-free environment given the unknown factor of other guests at your time of stay having allergies as well as our priority of keeping as clean a space as possible.
Q:WILL I HAVE THE WHOLE HOUSE TO MYSELF?
A: No. Quest House is a community-based model. We are interested in creating a space for folks to recover together under the same roof, and create connection, while still being able to have plenty of privacy. You will however, have a private bedroom and access to a full kitchen, living room, balcony, and very private backyard.
Q: ARE THE MEDICAL SUPPLIES IN THE HOUSE FREE?
A: Yes! Our medical supplies have arrived at our house from a variety of methods: purchased with house funds, generously donated by supporters and previous guests. Our supplies are inventoried, rotated regularly, and checked for expiration dates. Anything designed for multi-use (scissors, thermometers, tweezers, etc) are thoroughly sterilized between guests or sent home with folks when they leave.
Q: DO I NEED TO BRING ANY MEDICAL SUPPLIES SINCE THERE IS A WHOLE CLOSET FULL OF THEM?
A: In between guests, the medical supply closest is inventoried and we make a list to identify what we are low on or out of. We then give this list of items to folks that will be arriving next. Guests are by no means obligated to purchase the suggested items. Rather, it is a complimentary service that we offer in order to support guests in only buying what they need. Any donations to this closest are very much appreciated, so that we may continue to offer supplies to our future guests through this process of both give and take.
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